Wednesday 29 January 2014

Settling A Foster Dog Into Your Home & Setting Boundaries


Why do we need Foster carers for the dogs of the Trust?
We would not be able to help the dogs needing it if it were not for foster carers. The trust doesn’t have many kennels and they are there, really, for dogs that have nowhere else to go.
The dogs are far better in foster homes as we are looking to place them in new homes. Fosterers can report back with their assessments to enable the rest of the team to find the right home for that dog.
Parting with your foster dog can be hard sometimes, but knowing that he’s going to people who really want him and that you played a huge part in that is very rewarding.

What do we need you to do?
We need you to prepare the dog for a new home. Any little (or large) problems or even little quirks in their nature we need to know about. The foster home is the ideal place to iron out things. Anything at that can be misconstrued by someone else needs to be noted. There is nothing more upsetting than seeing a dog being returned to a rescue, sometimes time after time. It’s what got me into behaviour counselling in the first place.
Pound dogs often come with no background info at all so we need the fosterer to fill us in on all aspects of the dog’s character and behaviour. You don’t have to be an expert just tell us what you see. Pound dogs are not homed with young children but you as the fosterer may find that he is fine with children he meets outside and maybe your friends children so an adoptive home with younger children may well be an option.
We need you to tell us what he is like with other dogs, whether he pulls on the lead, how he is off the lead. (Never let a foster dog off the lead in an unenclosed space and then only if you are as sure as you can be that he will come back to you whether there are other people/dogs there or not and never within hours or a couple of days of fostering him.)

First Steps in preparing a dog for a new home.
You must have very strong boundaries for the dog from the start and stick to them no matter how he looks at you with those big brown eyes! Not every dog in the Trust has had a bad beginning to his life. Even if he has you can’t make up for it so don’t try. Dogs remember by association ie if he has been battered by a rolled up newspaper then he is likely to have an adverse reaction to a rolled up newspaper but he isn’t going to sit there worrying about it unless it happens. Not all dogs who need a foster home have problems of any sort but still need the initial boundaries.
Dogs like to know where they’re supposed to be and where their place is in the family. A dog that is allowed to do what he likes is not usually a happy dog, they like to have a bit of structure. He wants to know where he is allowed to go, where he’s going to sleep, when he will eat, when he will have exercise etc.
Adoptive families also need to have the same sort of boundaries initially.

What sort of Boundaries
You will find that the dog appears to ‘settle in’ quite quickly. Sometimes almost straightaway, this is fairly superficial though. Within a couple of weeks he will have worked out any weak spots and will have found out what he can get away with. He may well start to push his luck now if he is that way inclined. Of course, all dogs don’t take advantage of this but you have no way of knowing initially if your foster dog is one of them that will. So the first two weeks or so are very important in laying down the ground rules, calmly and quietly so he knows where he is. Avoidance of problems is much better than trying to cure them. Dogs sometimes are returned because the adopters don’t realise that the dog was allowed on a bed in the foster home, for instance, and become worried when the dog growls at them because they try to remove him from theirs.
Don’t let the dog have the run of the house. His adopters may not want a dog on the furniture, for instance, or upstairs. There can be difficulties in adopting a dog, teething troubles so we want to make that transition as easy as possible. It is far easier to relax the boundaries bit by bit if you want to than to suddenly change the rules because you now realise it’s not the behaviour you want.
If the dog is crate trained then make sure you use the crate. If not then it’s a good idea to crate train him. (See the blog on crate training). Have him sleep in the kitchen or utility, not in the bedroom. Having the dog with you all the time can create problems with separation anxiety, if not with you, then with the adopters. Also if you are a person who is home most of the time, make a point of leaving him now and again so he doesn’t become dependant on someone being around all of the time.

Support
There is always support for fosterers and adopters. We’re all volunteers and most of us have day jobs and other commitments but we will always respond as quickly as we can.
The important thing is not to let anything get out of hand. No one will think you ‘silly’ or ‘a bit of a wimp’ if you voice your concerns no matter how small you think they are. We would much rather know early on before they become bigger issues.
You may foster a dog and not have a problem at all and we need to know that too.

Linda Bettles
Canine Behaviourist 
01296 733747 or 07749240471
lindashearman@btinternet.com
Linda kindly supports the dogs in the care of the Algernon Trust and also offers a private service to people in need of advice with their dogs.


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